Working in your garden or altering your landscape should be relaxing, calming, and give you an awesome sense of accomplishment and fulfillment. Smaller projects more often will keep it fun and fulfilling.
Never forget the goal or reason for your own Garden of Eden. Use a garden to find yourself or define yourself to others. So do some "soul searching" and create the garden that is right for you and who you are.
Always remember we are here to help no matter which "Garden of Eden" is yours.